Dating and Pickup: Mechanics

DISCLAIMER: In various parts of this post, it may seem like I am advocating either a constant stream of long term relationships and dating, or advocating against such at all. Neither is the case, the point of this post is to expand on the beliefs and views of being in a long term relationship nowadays, and red flags to look for when potentially entering or considering entering one, I’m not here to tell you whether you should or shouldn’t be single or in a relationship.

The Ideal Narcissist

Narcissism – erotic gratification derived from admiration of one’sown physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development. 

Basically, Narcissism directly constitutes the worth that you value yourself as – better known as your ego – and how this affects how you treat those around you. While I will agree with the fact that Narcissism can be a bad thing, it can also be positive in its uses for creating self value/worth, confidence and above all a sense of pride.

2016 New Year Bravado

2016 Overview – Unlock Your Bravado!

“Tomorrow, is the first blank page of a 365(6) page book. Write a good one.”
― Brad Paisley

No matter what anyone tells you, every new day you wake up is a chance to reject the past and embrace the future, and make said future better – whether it’s New Years or Spring Break, you can always improve yourself as a person. Don’t let hipsters tell you that 2016 can’t be your year, keep up with this site and I will make sure it is.

Valuable Time: Don’t Waste it on Patience – Invest Wisely

“There are times to stay put, and what you want will come to you, and there are times to go out into the world and find such a thing for yourself.”
– Lemony Snicket
The key is in not spending time, but in investing it.
Stephen R. Covey

The previous are two quotes I feel like properly illustrate the concept I’m about to explain here, which is frankly – Investing your time unwisely for the sake of patience is not good nor a virtue, but rather a waste of time. As the saying goes time is money, which means that wasting one is wasting both as an interconnection of the two. While I don’t necessarily agree with this in the terms of all life situations, I find a better term to be “Time is worth the value of the money you’re losing or gaining during said time period”.

Negative personality Dissolution

Negative Personality Dissolution: Defeating Your Psyche

~Negative emotions like loneliness, envy, and guilt have an important role to play in a happy life; they’re big, flashing signs that something needs to change~
Gretchen Rubin

This post is going to deal with the concept of having a Negative Personality and how to defeat said part of your psyche and transform yourself into an optimist, a person who believes they are on this earth for a purpose and they can improve both their own life and the lives of those around them.